The past week has been full of ups and downs and I am glad to be starting fresh this morning and reflecting on the things I’ve learned. I’d like to start by saying, last week I mentioned starting the Weight Watchers program and I have decided against continuing down that path. I am pretty confident in my own abilities to eat healthier and be more active, I just need to work on the motivation. I think WW can work for a lot of people, but I just felt more stressed out by it than anything else. Our family has definitely started the journey of eating healthier though and it has been fun thinking of new meals and shopping for different ingredients.
On Tuesday night we went to see Avengers: Infinity War. It was a lot. I have seen almost every marvel movie integrated with this Marvel Universe and I have never felt this way after watching one of them before. If you are a Marvel fan I suggest you see this, but be warned…do not wear mascara. Much like Pixar’s CoCo, it can be an intense emotional roller coaster that you probably won’t be prepared for. No spoilers, just check it out for yourself.
On Wednesday I mostly just worked, I had so much editing to do and I have been trying to find a way to make this blog and my main website/portfolio more mobile user friendly. It is going to take some time but eventually I will work out the kinks so please bear with me. Thursday was extremely eventful, and of course we had Friendship Club. I have been slowly accumulating sidewalk chalk and managed to get over 300 pieces to bring for Friendship Club on Thursday and I do not regret this decision at all. The kids had a blast! It was a bit warm out, because we don’t get seasons in California haha. But the kids flocked to the chalk and began drawing things and having so much fun. I saw rainbows and hearts and hopscotch grids and school mascots, but most of all I saw these amazing kids sharing and working together to be creative. I was so proud of them and enjoyed watching them creating their mini masterpieces with chalk. I hope we can have another chalk day before the end of the school year. After school Ben and I hit the Mall for some snacking and shopping. He is obsessed with Wetzel’s Pretzels dog bites so I got him some and we had a nice talk while snacking. Then we were on a mission to find a Teacher Appreciation gift. Ben chose a Daisy Duck Tsum Tsum from the Disney store and a fancy candy from Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory. We also browsed Box Lunch and found some awesome shirts. Ben got a BB-8 Star Wars button up and I scored a cool Lando Calrissian tee featuring Donald Glover aka Childish Gambino. Can you tell I’m a fan? I am so stoked for Solo, coming out May 25th!! I also got my nails done and Ben picked the colors out, black and purple (“Haunted Mansion colors Mom!”), and he made some friends at the salon. I love that he is so confident to try and talk to other kids now, he is so much fun.
Friday was May the 4th! As in, May the 4th be with you!! Ben was decked out in his Star Wars gear for school and off to have a fun weekend. Chris and I spent the day working and made plans for the weekend. On Saturday we went to see Blockers at the theater and had a late lunch at Dai Bai Dang’s in River Park. It was nice to get out of the house together. On Sunday we did a little shopping together and made plans to get Chris a new bike so we could start riding together and continue to become a more active family. Sunday night I picked up Ben in Merced with my Mom and we had dinner together before heading home. I have really loved seeing my mom more often and we talked about our upcoming Mother’s Day trip.
Monday was a good day in terms of getting a lot of work stuff done and being creative. I made my first ever pair of Mickey ears! I have so much respect for people who make them to sell in their small shops because it is NOT an easy task. I will try to post a How-To sometime soon. Ben came home and we had a lot of homework, which lead to a long talk about responsibility. Ben was not in a great mood by the end of the talk but this morning was a fresh start for us. We got up, had breakfast and got back to our discussion with a more positive attitude. We did our AR reading in the morning and I selected a book I felt would help him understand that bad days do not last forever, “Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No good, Very Bad day” by Judith Viorst. He got the message and told me he was happy to try again and make today a good day. He also spotted a hidden Mickey in the book, because he is 100% my child. I am so happy that Ben and I have the type of relationship that we can talk through our problems and I can guide him to make better choices and learn life lessons. No matter how hard the day is, and how hard it is to be patient, it is always worth it in the end.
I hope you all have an amazing week, thanks for following along with me and my crazy adventures!